Boys versus Girls..

'Boys are easier to take care of rather than girls but girls are more easier to be taught than boys..'

Really?? erm.. when i asked this phrase to my aunt, she said that it is quite true as she had the experiences with her daughter and son. She said that it is easier for taking care her son rather than her daughter becoz she didn't have to be worried much about her son as when he grows bigger, he can take good care of himself.

When the boys have to travel in a long distance trip or journey, most of their parents will have a trust that their sons will be safe, Insyaallah. However, if the child is a daughter, then, the parents would be worried enough to let her go. They will ask with whom they will go for the trip, with what, how much the cost and so on. And, certain parents will not let their daughter out or if they give permission, they will ensure their daughter is in the safe mode. For example, maybe some parents will send and fetch their daughters to the places or maybe they will make a call for every minute..!! huhu..

Why do parents more worried on their daughters than their sons?? We all know the answer right? Girls have to face many harms out there. As they are weaker and need more protection than boys. Moreover, many cases which involve girls as victims are reported in media from time to time. Therefore, it is rational if our parents are very worried about us.

In Islam, parents have to take care of their daughters until they get married. But for boys, only until they have works and able to support their lives. What a pretty of Islam right?? As it very protecting females and Islam has some rational reasons to do so.

We go to 'girls are more easier to be taught than boys'.. erm, normally this phrase will have the agreement of many parents. huhu.. erm, most of the boys are more stubborn and rebellious than girls. While, girls have the obedient and gentle character more than boys. Most of girls are also more hardworking than boys. Therefore, girls are easier to be taught.

However, i admitted that if boys are more hardworking in their works or lives, then they will be more successful than girls. Look. Many of the specialists are males, even though there are more females under them. So, i really respect the males who are really committed in their lives.

Why do i wrote about this?? It is becoz, huhu.. my mother is actually quite worried as i want to further my studies in oversea. I know she is very proud of me and she knew i can take care of myself. But she still worried. She doesn't say if she is worried. But i know it becoz she always say "USIM pon bagus Long.." after i got the offers from MARA. huhu. However, after seeing that i want to accept the MARA offers, she accepts my decision. At the same time, she contacts my neighbour who are continuing her studies there to know more about the life in Jordan..hakhak.. (Ummi..don't worry too much about me..) Anyway, i really proud to have a mum like that.. Imagine if i am a boy, does ummi will be worried much like this??